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پدر یعنی شکفتن . آشنایی

پدر آرامش روح یعنی

همان مردی که در فراق شب

به امید ش بخسبیدم

جوانی؟ نه ...کهنسالی؟نه  ;جادویی!

همه قلبم از او سرشار

ولی شاید کمی بیشتر

ز گرمی وجود او شوم شادتر

کمی بیشتر .

صدایش کن ! دهد جوّاب

رهایش لا ! ولا ثواب

گهی گویم به او بابا

گهی خندم پدر گویم

زمان آمد به سر ...اما

باز هم مر او را پدر گویم

اینا رو نوشتم که حمایتی از ((شاعران بسیار معروف امروزی )) کرده باشم !!!

In The Name of God
Dehkhoda was born. Khan Baba Khan died when Dehkhoda was ten years old.the landowners of Ghazvin (a famous city northwest of Tehran) had migrated to Tehran beforeAli Akbar Dehkhoda was born in Tehran in 1881. His father, Khan Baba Khan, who was one of Allameh Ali Akbar Dehkhoda"s life and work

Dehkhoda started learning from Najm Abadi as well.Sheikh Hadi Najm Abadi, who was one of Dehkhoda"s family"s neighbors. From an early ageby Dehkhoda himself as his main source of literacy, knowledge and education. The other wasafter his father"s death. The first was Sheikh Gholam Hossein Borujerdy whom has been creditedIt was Dehkhoda"s destiny to have two very knowledgeable members of the clergy as his mentors

intellectuals including Allameh Mohammad Ghazvini were exiled to Europe.revolution. After the parliament was closed by Mohammad Ali Shah, Dehkhoda and many otherhis education in Europe. Dehkhoda"s return to Iran from Europe coincided with the Mashroutiatfluency in French allowed him to accompany the Iran"s ambassador to the Balkans and completeDuring his adolescence, Dehkhoda learned French parallel to his religious and literary studies. His

Kerman and Tehran.Tehran. Dehkhoda was elected to the newly - formed parliament as a representative of bothShortly after, Mohammad Ali Shah was overthrown by the Mashroutiat revolutionaries" invasion of

1955 in Tehran and was buried in the nearby city of Ray.and dedicated himself to work on the persian language, literature and culture. Dehkhoda died inMahal Bakhtiari in western Iran. When the war ended he came back to Tehran, put politics asideDuring the First World War Dehkhoda spent most of his time in seclusion in a village in Chahar

Loghat Nameh Dehkhoda, the well known encyclopedic dictionary of Persian ***

thirty-five years of continuous effort. The last chapter of Loghat Nameh"s first edition was publishedLoghat Nameh Dehkhoda is based on more than two million notes written by Dehkhoda during his

not an encyclopedia by definition, yet it contains many articles on a variety of topics and subjects.compositions with documented references to Persian text and poems. Loghat Nameh Dehkhoda isconsisted of 26000 pages divided into 222 chapters. There are 342262 topics and almost 58457in 1981. The last chapter was published about fifty years after the first chapter. The entire series

disk (CD) media format.Nameh" and the transformation of the 26000-page Loghat Nameh Dehkhoda into the compactThe Loghat Nameh Dehkhoda Institute"s activities include the authorship of the new "Farsi Loghat

Nameh. After his death the parliament took over his work and, in 1957, the Iranian parliament gaveDehkhoda used his own financial resources for almost 30 years to do the work on the Loghat

Language and Literature Department, as the vice chair.institute along with Dr. Seyyed Jafar Shahidi, one of the well - known academics of the PersianLoghat Nameh with Dehkhoda, was appointed as the chairman of the Loghat Nameh DehkhodaDehkhoda. Dr. Mohammad Moin, one of the university professors who had been co-authoringFarsi Language and Literature Department of Tehran University authority over the Loghat Nameh

Loghat Nameh introductory Chapter.Language. For details on the history of Loghat Nameh Dehkhoda Institute please refer to theDehkhoda Institute. Currently, he is also the chairman of the International Institute of the PersianAfter Dr. Moin"s death in 1971, Dr. Shahidi was appointed as the chairman of the Loghat Nameh

Summary of Presentation by

Dr. Gholam Reza Sotoudeh

DO YOU WANT MY SEX

Susan Cole talks to positive women and negative men about sex, relationships and HIV

Would you have sex with an HIV positive woman?" I"ve been asking a lot of men that question recently. No, this isn"t my new chat-up line -"fancy a shag, big boy?" still works fine, thank you. I"ve been attempting to discover how HIV negative men regard sex with a positive woman. I"ve been surprised at the response. Most men I spoke to said that a woman"s HIV positive status would not be a barrier to starting a relationship with her. But how do positive women regard this? What impact does it have on their libido and on starting and maintaining fulfilled sexual relationships?

Is HIV a liability for a lady"s libido?

For many women, their libido plummets when they discover that they are HIV positive. Sex is often the first casualty of a positive diagnosis and is sometimes regarded as "dirty", but this usually passes with time. Women often find resuming sexual relationships problematic, initially, usually because of the fear of the reaction when they disclose their status.

Some turn to more casual relationships in which they don"t feel the need to disclose. "For the first year after I was diagnosed, I would only go out with a man once or twice and would end the relationship as soon as we became close. I didn"t want the hassle of having to tell him I was positive and deal with his reaction", said Alison, a 32-year-old Afro-Londoner.

Others are upfront about their status at the very beginning of a relationship or wait until they are more comfortable with their partner.

Thandi Haruperi, 40-year-old, former PN cover star and mother of three, who"s well-known in London"s HIV community, has this to say about her sexual relationships:

"I wasn"t in a relationship when I was diagnosed, but I met a guy 12 days later. I started seeing him (but we weren"t having sex) and he asked me to go away with him. I thought it was very important that I told him about my status before we went away together. When I told him I broke down and cried. He just held me and said "so are you still going to pack your bags?" We went away together, but each time I thought about sex, I thought "this is how I got it."

"He was very understanding about me not wanting to have sex and he was very good to me and to my children. However it did put a strain on our relationship. I think it was too early to get into a physical relationship. After five months we split up.

"I thought it might be better to go out with an HIV positive man. We were together for a year but being HIV positive wasn"t the cause of problems in the relationship. I"ve not had a relationship with another HIV positive person since. The fact that I am HIV positive has not been an issue for the men I"ve been involved with, I think that"s because my status isn"t a problem for me. I am always the one that insists on using a condom. I always tell men that I have HIV at the earliest opportunity. HIV shouldn"t be a barrier to having a relationship; you should focus on the person you are and not the fact that you are HIV positive. Why should I compromise my standards because I have HIV?"

Pamela, a 42-year-old African woman, talks about her experiences:

"I definitely went off sex when I was first diagnosed. I just couldn"t be bothered and was afraid of infecting others. I made the mistake of thinking that I was the problem and didn"t stop to think that they might also be positive. I found the thought of disclosing my status very anxiety-provoking, but I always knew that I would tell before I started a physical relationship. The first time I told a man about my status I was extremely anxious. However he was incredibly supportive; his reaction actually shocked me. I was certain that he would walk away, but he didn"t! It was a real morale and confidence booster. Our relationship fizzled out after a while but this was due to distance and not my status. I think fear of rejection is the real issue for positive women. I think your first experience is very important as well as what you hear from others."

Sylvia Petretti, 37, from Italy recalls her first post-diagnosis relationship:

"I was so confused when I was diagnosed, but it didn"t really put me off sex. I started a relationship soon after and told him about my status immediately, without really thinking about the consequences - he told lots of people about it and it did affect us badly. I"ve been in other relationships since and have had lots of different reactions to saying I"m HIV positive. I try now to get to know the person before I tell them, particularly after my first bad experience. This can also cause problems - I worry about them thinking I"ve been lying to them or being reckless. It is a concern. My sex drive isn"t affected by being HIV positive, but relationships can be difficult."

Lisa, 35, is from Uganda and has been positive for 14 years.

"For a long time I didn"t say I was HIV positive until I felt very comfortable with someone. They were usually okay about it. I have had some negative responses though and someone did really freak out once. The anti-HIV medication has definitely had an impact on my sexual desire. I started it five years ago and have since pushed people away, even though I feel completely alone. I"ve recently made an appointment to talk to a psychologist about sexual dysfunction. I sometimes feel like a failure and that also has an impact on my sex drive and relationships."

...does it mask a man"s machismo?

Simon, 22, is white European and is in a relationship with an HIV positive woman. "I grew up with the whole "Don"t Die of Ignorance" campaigns around me, which had exactly the intended effect - you just don"t have sex with a positive person, it"s not really an option.

"But meeting someone who is positive turns it all around. You obviously fall for the person themselves, and after you"ve acknowledged that the risk of infection is so small if you practise safer sex, it ceases to become an issue. Sex can be just as good, often better.

"While sex may not be an issue, there are other issues that come up while having a relationship with a positive person. It"s a worry of mine that there may come a point where I have to disclose my girlfriend"s status to my family and friends, and if that happens coping with an unsupportive reaction may be difficult to deal with."

Matthew, 28, white European and HIV negative, is also currently in a relationship with an HIV positive woman.

"When my girlfriend told me she had something awful to tell me about her, after we"d been seeing each other for about a month, I was convinced that it was something truly horrific. I thought she was going to say that she had murdered her last boyfriend or had previously been a man and had had a sex change, so in some ways hearing that she was HIV positive was rather anti-climatic! I was upset, but that was much more about the fear of her dying rather than the fear of me catching it. It was much more of an issue to her than it was for me. We had always had safe sex but I felt the need to find out more about HIV and the means of transmission, so I made an appointment to see a health advisor at her clinic and this put my mind at ease. The fact that she is HIV positive isn"t an issue for me at all and it never crosses my mind when we have sex. We always use condoms but it is still the best sex I"ve ever had!"

Steve, 26, is white European and bisexual. He is HIV negative.

"I have always used condoms and until recently only had sex with men. It is impossible to know how many of my sex partners have been HIV positive, but I guess it is a high proportion.

"When I had sex with a positive woman, I thought it was very important to be clear from the start that her HIV status was of no issue to me. Her sexual confidence had been what had attracted me but I had worries that she might have felt vulnerable because our status was different and been covering it up. The sex was great, life-enhancing even. The fact that she was on her period did not bother me.

"I have no anxiety whatsoever about having a relationship with someone HIV positive, male or female. I do not see HIV as a barrier to anything, certainly not to happiness. It disgusts me that we live in a society where HIV positive people may still be made to feel unwanted or unattractive."

Some of the names have been changed in this article.

All by  http://www.positivenation.co.uk  
                                                                          You read in www.parantez.parsiblog.com

Every woman dreams to find that special man whom she would live a long and happy life with. Unfortunately it isn"t so easy.... and I haven"t found the right person here in Brazil yet, though my country is so large. Maybe I has not been too lucky or a man of my dream is somewhere far away so I guess I need to take my future happiness in my own hands.

I am not fastidious but I wish it would be a man who will treat me with respect, with delicacy who will care about me. The man who will provide me stability. I"m looking for a man who will be both my partner and friend. With whom I could share my life and every bad and good moments. I"m family- oriented and I wish he would be the same, because the family is one of the most important things in my life. I would like him to be a gentleman, who will treat me as a real lady. Someone I could love mutually... it is the most important issue and it doesn"t matter where I will find that man or where I will live in the future here or in another country I just want to be happy. I think it is natural for all people to be eager to share our happiness with other people.

I am ambitious and hardworking. Everything what I achieved has been the result of my work. I don"t want to stop where I am now. I want to improve my skills and qualification. Money has never been the most important thing in my life but I know it is necessary just to survive. I see a lot of changes in Brazil, that gladden me. Our economy is much better than a few years ago and the level of live is higher too. So, I cannot agree with people who say that Brazilian women marry foreign men just because they want to leave this country and to live better. This time passed long ago.

In BR Ladys office there is a poster where one can read: "The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny". I want to determine my destiny and I wish to find my special man and to be happy with him.

ما دائما در حال تعجیل هستیم، بدن خود را با استرس بیمار می کنیم و ذهنمان را با افکار مسموم آلوده می سازیم. راههایی که برای دفع سموم موجود است، خیلی ساده تر از ترک اعتیاد و شرکت در کلاس های پاک سازی است.

همه ما باید سم زدایی بدن و ذهن را در یک راستا و همگام با یکدیگر شروع کنیم. با این کار می توانید تمام سموم ناسالم را از بدن خارج کرده و سلامت روانی و جسمی خود را مجددا باز جویید.

چگونه می توان خود را پاک و با طراوت ساخت؟

مسیر حرکت خود را آرام نمایید

1- روزه بگیرید
گزینه های مختلفی برای روزه گرفتن وجود دارد. برنامه و زمانی ا انتخاب کنید که برای شما مناسب باشد. بهتر است روزهای شلوغ کاری و یا آخر هفته هایی که همسرتان نقشه های بزرگی در سر دارد، را به این کار اختصاص ندهید. سعی کنید زمانی که روزه هستید تنها باشید، چراکه امکان دارد کمی سست و بدخو شوید.

فواید سم زدایی: بدن شما نیازمند این فرصت است که تمام سم های جمع شده در خود را تصفیه کند. کارهای متفاوتی می توان در مورد این قضیه انجام داد. اما در اکثر موارد، گزارش شده است که در افراد پس از باز کردن روزه، احساس تنبلی رخت بر میبندد و احساس پر انرژی بودن به آنها دست می دهد. روزه گرفتن متابولیسم بدن شما را بهبود می بخشد، و بدن را از سموم مختلف که شریان خونی و دستگاه گوارش را مسدود کرده اند، پاک می کند.

2- ذهن خود را پاک کنید
به تنهایی در یک اتاق بنشینید، آرام باشید و بر روی خالی کردن ذهن خود متمرکز شوید. تصور کنید که استرس های شما توسط یک شیشه پاک کن از پنجره ذهنتان محو می شوند. مشکلات و فشارها ناپدید می گردند. خوش بین باشید و نقاط مثبت هر موقعیت را در نظر بگیرید.

فواید سم زدایی: وقتی به حال خود رها شوید، سم ها جای ثابتی در بدن و ذهن شما پیدا می کنند و احتمالا باعث بیمار کردن شما می شوند. زمانی را به خود اختصاص دهید تا انرژی از دست رفته را باز جویید و سعی کنید به هیچ وجه به افکار مسموم فکر نکنید.

خود را از بدی ها خالی کنید

3- نفس عمیق بکشید
زمانی که تحت فشار قرار می گیرید برای چند ثانیه بر روی نفس کشیدن خود تمرکز کنید و از این طریق به خود آرامش دهید. نفس عمیق بکشید تا هوا به درون ریه هایتان وارد شود. منبسط و منقبض شدن شش های خود را احساس کنید و اکسیژن تازه را جایگزین هوای کهنه و مانده نمایید. هر موقع که می توانید بیرون بروید (به ویژه به ییلاق) تا هوای دورن ریه ها و گرایشات درونی خود را تازه کرده و طراوت بخشید.

فواید سم زدایی: تنفس عمیق و آرام سبب می شود تا میزان آدرنالین خون تا حد زیادی کاهش پیدا کنید و در زمانی که با شرایط استرس زا مواجه می شوید، راه های "مواجهه یا فرار" از مشکلات را دقیقتر تحلیل و بررسی نمایید. میزان کمی آدرنالین برای بقای حیات مفید می باشد، اما اگر مقدار زیادی از آن در بدن انباشته شود، نه تنها بدن را مسموم میکند، بلکه باعث می شود که رگ های خونی نیز آلوده شده و مسیرشان مسدود گردد.

4- از بدن خود بیشتر مراقبت کنید
کم بخورید و از غذاهای سبک تر استفاده کنید. مصرف الکل را متوقف کنید، سیگار کشیدن را ترک نمایید و برای چند روز در رژیم غذایی خود از گوشت قرمز استفاده نکنید. از محصولا غذایی غیر شیمیایی بهره بگیرید تا سموم بدن شما زدوده شود و سیستم گوارشی بدنتان نیز از آلودگی ها پاک گردد. تا می توانید آب بنوشید؛ این کار باعث بالا رفتن ذخیره آب بدن شده، فرایند سم زدایی را تسریع می بخشد و به شما کمک میکند عادات غذایی خود را تغییر دهید. زمانی که سردرد دارید، دچار گرفتگی عضلات شده اید، و علائمی بیماری در حال افزایش است، خوب است تا پیش از مراجعه به جعبه داروها به همیوپاتی روی بیاورید.

فواید سم زدایی: زمانی که متابولیسم بدن آرام می شود، کبد بهتر کار می کند و غذا بهتر هضم می شود. زمانی که از غذاهای ناسالم استفاده نمی کنید و دستگاه گوارش مجبور نیست به تندی کار کند، خوب بالطبع احساس بهتری خواهید داشت. به چیزهایی که می خورید توجه بیشتری مبذول فرماید، چرا که از این طریق می توانید آداب غذایی خود را بهبود بخشیده و سلامت خود را تضمین کنید.

وضوح ذهنی خود را تا آخرین حد ممکن افزایش دهید

5- استرس بیش از اندازه را حذف کنید
توجه خود را بر روی مسائل مهم متمرکز کنید و مسائل جزئی و افکار استرس زا به دور بیندازید. از نگرانی های بی حد و حصر به شدت دوری کنید. سعی کنید فرد مثبتی باشید و از دیدن نیمه خالی لیوان پرهیز کنید. هیچ کار دیگری از دست شما ساخته نیست جز متوقف کردن افکار مسموم و استرس زا.

فواید سم زدایی: اضطراب شما را در جای خود میخکوب میکند و ترس و وحشت بدن شما را فلج می نماید. بیشتر مواردی که ما به خاطر آن خود را نگران می کنیم، اصلا در زندگی اتفاق نمی افتند. پس بهتر است خودتان را از شر این افکار منحوس خلاص کنید.

6- در مورد مشکلات خود صحبت کنید
شرایطی که با آن مواجه هستید، را درک کنید و بعد آنرا با دیگران در میان بگذارید. نگه داشتن تمام مشکلات و کاستی برای خود تنها باعث افزایش استرس می شود. اگر کسی را ندارید که با او مشورت می کنید می توانید مشکلات خود را بر روی یک کاغذ بنویسید، آنها زمانی که از دور به آنها نگاه می کنید، کمتر عذاب آور و ناراحت کننده جلوه می کنند. فرض کنید از یکی از رفقا به این دلیل که هفته گذشته دوبار پول نهار خود را به گردن شما انداخته، ناراحت هستید. زمانی که این مسئله را دقیق تر تحلیل و بررسی می نمایید، شاید یادتان بیاید که او یک ماه پیش پول یک رستوران گران قیمت را حساب کرده بود. همیشه سعی کنید قبل از حرف زدن فکر کنید، به ویژه در زمان عصبانیت.

فواید سم زدایی: رفتار و گفتار خصمانه باعث ایجاد مسمومیت و خلق محیط ناخوشایندی می شوند. اگر همه چیز را در ذهن خود تحلیل و بررسی نمایید، میتوانید تصمیم های مناسب تری اتخاذ کنید. افکار منفی واکنش ذهن شما را مختل ساخته، دستگاه گوارش را از کار می اندازد و استرس را افزایش می بخشد.

7- حرکت کنید
به چشمه های آب معدنی بروید و سموم بدن خود را پاک کنید. ماساژ درمانی را شروع کنید تا فشارهای ماهیچه ای از بدن شما خارج شوند. درست تنفس کنید تا اکسیژن بیشتری در رگهای خونی شما جریان پیدا کند.

این کار زمان می خواهد
عمل پالودن ذهن و جسم امری نیست که به سرعت انجام پذیر باشد. این نکات راه حل های آنی نیستند، اما به شما کمک می کنند که گزینه های سالم تری را انتخاب کنید. اگر می خواهیم به طور جدی با عادات بد خود مبارزه کنیم، باید همیشه از تفکرات درونی، عکس العمل ها و کاستی های خود آگاه باشیم. ابتدا باید نسبت به حیطه مشکلات خود آگاه شوید و بعد برنامه های روزانه خود را با احتساب به این امر حل و فصل نمایید.

حال که آگاه شدید که سمومی در کمین جسم و ذهن شما نشسته اند، تصمیم های مناسبی نسبت به آنها اتخاذ نمایید، بی حالی و سستی را کنار بگذارید و از بروز بیماری جلوگیری کنید. به این منظور می توانید از برخی رفتارهای پالاینده و سم زدا بهره بگیرید.

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